In my life, I have helped scores of people across the world heal by delivering messages of love from spirit — powerful messages that leave no doubt in the clients mind who I am speaking to or what the message is.

I did a gallery reading one time and I got the validation for “tinker bell” and I was still new at doing public readings so didn’t want to deliver such an odd message. However, it kept resurfacing and I finally said, “What’s with the Tinker Bell connection?”.

Would you believe 4 people had a Tinker Bell connection ??

So, it was early on that I realized the messages weren’t for me the medium to process — no, rather, my job was simple; deliver the messages and allow the client to make the connection. I believe that many psychics — or so called psychics — in the world today, try and process and make sense of the validation. Yet, we can’t make sense of anything when we don’t know what it’s referring to.

The other day, I did a reading and the validation came through for a “tennis shoe” and so I delivered the message — turns out it was a key phrase that was supposed to be used in after death communication. I was astounded myself!

Yeah, I always find it interesting the information that comes through in a reading although most the time I don’t remember it. Yet, it’s the “odd” validations that really stand out.

Another phenomenal thing that spirits have done with me is show me the “grand tour” of a clients house — or a relatives house — and I’ll be describing the inside of the house as if I were there.

That still amazes me the detail and clarity of a house that I’ve never been in — knowing the layout and even placement of furniture or key items.

It’s no wonder my clients feel like I’m sitting across from them during a reading — psychically I am.

Let me say something to this end, a lot of people have this misconception that a “in-person reading” is somehow greater than a reading over the phone or Skype; however, this has not been my experience. In fact, the opposite is true because clients tend to be nervous or on edge when meeting me — “I hope he doesn’t pick up on that.” they think to themselves.

Many people just feel uncomfortable outside of the privacy of their own home — so, it would make sense then that a reading where they are in a comfortable place that they are relaxed. Sure, they still may be nervous about what I’ll get or if I get anything, but the moment I start talking they fall into relaxation and the validations start flowing instantly. Honestly, I don’t think I’ve been on the phone longer than a minute when the validations start flowing through.

After a reading, people comment all the time about how “healing” the process was and how it provided them much needed “closure”. They often hang up the phone with a knowing that their loved one is around and have “proof” via evidential validations.

I love my work, but more importantly, I love providing my clients the healing and closure they need most.

I have been around a while and learned a lot, but I have always come across people that were scared to step outside of their comfort zone — for whatever reason — mostly it was UNCERTAINTY. Yet, for as much as the comfort zone offers the illusion of protection — it also keeps you from jumping full into the experiences of life! So, many people find themselves on the proverbial “cliff” of their comfort zone and fear that if they jump off — it will end in catastrophe.

Truth is,

many know intellectually that it may not be the case; yet, they are still gripped by fear as if an evil demon gorilla was waiting to eat them for a snack.

FEAR … it truly is what happens when we are uncertain of any outcome and it may manifest as anxiety, depression, stress, and even terror. So, the boundary of our comfort zone is fear based — is it not?

The very thing you have come to depend on to protect you and keep you safe is fear based. The comfort zone really says, “Stay here, you don’t know what lays in wait out there. Stay within my boundaries — it’s safer, you won’t get hurt.”

Trust me, I know many people who have been hurt within their comfort zone or by their comfort zone. All things within are comfort zone we have either come to expect or allowed ourselves to be conditioned that the occurrences are a normal part of life.

For example, you may have a couple existing in a horrible relationship — it’s truly going nowhere — yet, nobody makes an effort to leave because it’s “comfortable”. In other words, it is what they have come to rely on even though it may not be the healthiest and certainly not the happiest experience — yet, it’s within the boundaries of their comfort zone and they fear making the change.

Another example, is someone who is fearful of the ocean — namely shark attacks — may only dip a toe or two into the salty waters of the sea; yet, shark attacks are freak occurrences and are more likely not to happen. Yet, it keeps the individual beach bound as they watch swimmers enjoying the shimmering waters they still hear, “It’s not safe out there. Those people are crazy — in fact, they are asking for it. You’re safe on the beach.”

Are you really? I mean one could argue that in the past people have been mugged or even raped on the beach. But, one denies themselves the experience because they are fearful — it’s the unknown and therefore we project our fears onto what we don’t know.

I started this blog with the fact that Joy and I went Vegan — yet, prior to it Joy had a lot of fear about giving up all the things that she had grown comfortable with and accustomed to. Even after learning how harmful the vast majority of it was she still wanted to hold onto it — it was part of her comfort zone.

We have been Vegan for nearly a month and she is happy and excited that we have made the change. Last night, we went shopping for groceries and Joy had been craving chocolate. Naturally, she was looking at all the Easter Candy; Cadbury eggs being her favorite.

I showed her an all natural chocolate candy bar and she picked it up with dreaded apprehension — examining the label. She put it in the cart, but you could tell that she would have much preferred it be a Cadbury Egg.

When we got home, put the groceries away, I was watching a video on internet marketing and eating some grapes. Joy, had the candy bar in hand, opened the wrapper and took a bite then said, “It’s way better than I thought it would be … I don’t understand why they put all the crap in food if it tastes just as good if not better naturally.”

A new experience outside of her comfort zone yielded pleasant results — in fact, the entire shift to Vegan she greeted with much of that fear and apprehension as she did the chocolate bar. Yet, the results have proven themselves to her — the food doesn’t taste as bad as she thought it would, she is full more often and for longer, increase in energy, there is a balance, and she is actually enjoying it. We have both lost weight, in fact, I’m averaging 10 lbs a week and we are eating portioned controlled meals measuring everything out — which is why I also believe that I’m losing so much. See, I went to culinary school which means that I love food — both preparing and eating it. So overeating was always a big issue there are scientific reasons that we have come to realize during our constant research and understanding — basically, what we have found is that normal processed foods leave you feeling less full so you eat more to compensate. Yet, on a plant-based-diet you are consuming the good stuff first hand and it by nature leaves you feeling full quicker and for a longer duration.

So, here are some things for you to consider;

• What is in your comfort zone that is causing more harm than good?
• What experiences have you denied yourself simply because it was blocked by the wall of fear surrounding your comfort zone?

Affirmations are positive thought phrases that one can use in for a variety of reason. In this article, however, I’m going to be listening powerful affirmations that one can use in the morning for motivation and upliftment.

1. Today is going to be a fantastic day!
2. I am fully capable of handling any situation in a positive and effective manner.
3. I am grateful for the opportunity to serve today.
4. I know that the infinite mind and I are one therefore all things are possible.
5. Every moment is pregnant with opportunity and universal goodness may my higher mind raise my awareness so that I may see such things.

When speaking an affirmation do so with certainty and not from a position of “wishful thinking”. Be clear, but not demanding.

See the outcome of each affirmation as you state it during the course of your morning routine.

It’s kind of funny because it’s YOUR VISION – but here are some tips on must haves for a vision board.

1. Have Images that Evoke Emotion: Just having an image isn’t enough if it doesn’t trigger you to be excited or feel what it would be like to be there or have it. In other words, you want the images to cause you to react emotionally to something. Why? Emotions have high vibratory frequencies and cause the universe to respond quicker.
2. Have Phrases or Affirmations that correspond with what you are seeking to create. While looking at the vision board it would be helpful to recite these affirmations of power to help state what it is you are creating. However, the key to this is writing the affirmation from a position of already having.
3. Categorize the Board: If you have a general vision board it may be helpful if you have the board organized into categories. For example; career, romantic, travel, etc. Of course, you may want to develop an entire vision board or mind movie based on one particular topic.
4. Specifics: The clearer you are on your vision and the things you put on the board are helpful in manifesting exactly what you desire. For example, if you are manifesting your “true love” be specific as to looks, career, income, etc. The less you leave to the Universe to fill in the blanks the closer you’ll be to your dream life.
5. Creative Vision: Okay, by creative vision I mean if you desire to have a Lexus go to a local dealership and have a friend take a photo of you in the driver seat, note the smell and feel of the interior, and maybe take a couple of shots with you modeling with the car. OWN IT! Putting these images on the vision board are better and more effective than a magazine cutout of some random car. It will trigger your memory of having it – the smell, the feel, the test drive, etc. It can be done with anything else you desire to manifest

I ran a class on creating a vision board once and someone used tip 5 with creating a soulmate – it turned that he starting dating the friend he posed with.

May these tips serve you well in your creation and attraction of your ultimate vision.

It is said that the top 5 friends closest to you mirror you in all these areas or at least are very similar. So often, one reflects on their life and wonders, “How has it come to this?”

It’s important to realize that the real question is “Why haven’t I arrived at the destination yet?”

The answer to this is riddled in many things, but for today we are going to talk about how friends factor in reaching where you want to be!

Friends are often the most overlooked aspect on the road to success because we don’t look at them as anything but a friend. However, I ask you, if you were to write a list of your friends and then ask, “Is this person in alignment with my overall dream / vision of my life?”

What would the answer be? In my experience, more often than not the answer is a resounding no!

At this point, people object and say, “I’m not going to abandon my friendship just because of this answer – it’s ridiculous.”

That’s a choice that only you can make; yet, let me propose something to you. It is possible to remain friends with this person even if they aren’t in alignment with the overall dream or vision – the key is to find more friends that are!

For example, if your dream is to be a successful author do you think hanging out at your friend Fred the mechanics house will help get you there? One might argue, yes, because as a writer you study people and Fred may be a great basis for a character. However, wouldn’t you agree that a creative writing club or class might be a better way to find friends with a common dream or goal?

I believe it would be!

If you are an aspiring Golfer – do you think hanging out with the swim team will get you towards that goal? Probably not, but hanging out at a Country Club would.

If you are a person who has dreamed of being on the big screen do you think it would be wise to join acting clubs and hang out with others who share that same passion?

Are you seeing the point?

The vast majority of people have friends that aren’t in alignment with their overall dream / vision; however, if you want to actually achieve your dream you’ll undoubtedly have to shift to some degree your friends around.

Many people have reached a point in a friendship where you feel like things are different – you’ve “grown apart”. But, often, what is actually happening is you are coming to the awareness that the friendship isn’t conducive to the direction you are going.

5 Tips to Selecting Friends

1. Know your dream / vision: Knowing where you want to be and what you want to be doing will help you identify the category of people to mingle with.
2. Research: Knowing your vision think about where you are most likely to run into people with a similar interest / vision. Write a list of the top 5 closest places and hang out there and make a point to introduce yourself to people you meet.
3. Note the Frequent Visitors: If you realize that Mr. Jones is constantly at the Country Club and represents the lifestyle you are in alignment with – make friends. More than likely if you are a frequent visitor you and Mr. Jones have exchanged words by this point – just make it a point to become friends with Mr. Jones. Invite him to your next BBQ or whatever.
4. Collect Data: It’s important to have certain data on your new friends – so friend them on Facebook and follow them on Twitter. Keep a spreadsheet with their information; birthdays, anniversaries, address and phone number. A lot of that information may be available via Facebook. If not, continue the friendship online by interacting on their wall and noting other interests that you may have in common. Mr. Jones may be a huge wino and if you enjoy the grape as much as he does – perhaps, that is another avenue for your friendship to branch off into.
5. Use the Data: Okay, so you have made it a point to have a record of information on your friends – not in a creepy sort of way but so that you can send birthday cards, holiday cards, etc.

By utilizing these top tips on selecting friends that are in alignment with your overall dream / vision – you will see your life change just by associating with people that may already have the lifestyle you are dreaming about.

So, you’ve made the decision that you are in a dead-end relationship – it’s over. Now you are stuck with the monstrous task of breaking it off with your lover.

You could just tell them, “It’s over,” turn, and walk out the door. Or you could send them a text; call them at work, etc.  This is 2012 isn’t it?

Before you even call to arrange the break-up know if you are willing to make it work! So, you must be honest with yourself on why you feel it’s over and if it is at all fixable – if not, make the call. If it is than see read my article on “Rekindling the Passion in Your Relationship.”

If you have determined that you are indeed breaking up, here are some tips to result in a successful break up.

Top 3 Tips to Breaking Up

• Set a time to talk: Create a time where you can sit down uninterrupted and have the conversation. It’s important to break up in person because it gives both parties closure.

• Don’t make it about you! A big mistake a person does during a break up is make it about himself or herself – instead, of the person who will be affected by the break up. You’ve already decided that it was over from your point of view – your spouse may or may not know how you feel.

• Focus on the Good of the Relationship: In a break-up, one typically focuses on what the other person did or didn’t do which resulted in the break up. However, it’s more positive if one focuses on what you’ve gained and how having this relationship with this person has helped you.

Keeping these tips in mind will help you effectively create a Stress Free break-up. It’s important that you are also prepared to discuss why you think the relationship is over and not to come across negative or judgmental.

For some reason, after all the initial talking has been done probably about 6 months to a year into the relationship sometimes sooner — the talking stops or for the most part becomes almost forced. Why? Because, you feel as though you have transitioned out of the “getting to know you” phase — yet, a relationship is always about getting to know the other person. The moment you stop communication emotions start to withdraw and barriers start being built. Then you end up with a question you never really want to hear in a relationship, “How did we get here? We used to be so right for each other.”

What happens when you stop communicating? You start to feel like your partner is less and less interested in you or the relationship. So, communication is a powerful player in relationships of all types.

5 Ways to Dynamic Communication

1. Listen and be interested; Nobody likes feeling ignored or as if you simply could care less to what they are saying. If they are saying it than it is IMPORTANT to them. Remember, listening does not mean judging it simply means listen to their heart — their feelings and experiences. Listening also means WAITING until the other person is done communicating with you — being interrupted is annoying so don’t do it!

2. Make time! No more, “I don’t have time,” or “I’m really busy,” bullshit! If this relationship is going to work and if you want it to work you MUST make time! Set a time, each day, for you to have pleasant conversation and further your connection through dialogue. You can, of course, talk about your day initially but then dive deeper into the heart and soul of the other person. Let them know that you still are very interested in them and love hearing about them.

3. Continue Dating: A big mistake people make is that they virtually stop dating. They don’t go out, they don’t cuddle up on the couch for a movie, they don’t do fun things anymore. So, you need to continue the dating process — go out for a romantic night on the town, take a trip, go mini-golfing, etc. The point here, is to spend quality time together and continue forming that bonding connection and communication during these types of events are fun and playful.

4. Be Vulnerable. You know the majority of men and some women feel as though being vulnerable is a weakness — yet, nothing could be further from the truth. I say, “Vulnerability is NOT a weakness it is the power of being in tune and in touch with your deepest emotions!” Don’t be afraid to go there because through vulnerability you allow the other person to connect with you on a deeper and more intimate level. A man, for example, wants to be there for his woman during moments of vulnerability and if the woman never shows vulnerability he is never able to feel significant, trusted, or loved enough to exude that role. He may not know it, but it emasculates him and effectively weakens his role in the relationship. The same is true for a woman, if her man shows vulnerability she wants to nurture and love him and it shows trust being extended from him to her.

5. The Past is the Past! Okay, folks, here we go if you had a rocky road in the past leave it there beyond the initial conversation of past relationships. In other words, a guy or girl doesn’t want to constantly hear about past relationships gone wrong — it shows them that their may be some unfinished business and they don’t become as vested in this relationship. So, talk about your past, share the lessons you learned from them and leave them in the past allow that conversation to be healing for you. Another thing that happens, is a person may feel as though you are constantly comparing them to this past relationship or lover — a horrible no-no.

BONUS TIP

6. Love Yourself. Here is where a lot of people fail, they don’t love themselves enough to feel capable to love another deeply and they start telling themselves, “I don’t deserve this.” If you are in a relationship and aren’t 100% for whatever reason whatever you give out has to be less than 100% which isn’t fair to the person you are with. So, what you need to do is find something you enjoy doing, compliment yourself (not to stroke Ego, but to show love and affection), and treat yourself from time to time to that object you keep passing by in the store window. IMPORTANT: ENCOURAGE YOUR OTHER HALF TO DO THE SAME!

With these tips in practice you will see vast improvements in your relationship. Remember, love is an emotion you share with another it is the fabric that weaves the universe together and is ultimately what you are made of. Everyone is capable of love and everyone deserves love.

So Love always and in all ways and you and your relationships with grow and expand to dynamic levels.

A true leader empowers others to find their own greatness within them, their own inner strength, and ultimately become a source of empowerment for another.

In today’s world, however, leader’s are referred to as “control freaks” or “power hungry”. These descriptions have been applied to government officials to bosses, parents, teachers, etc.

Power itself can be manipulating or it can be a source to empower others. Whenever, you are put into a position of leadership you must be careful not to let your new found “power” stroke your Ego and go to your head. Instead, if you seek to be a great leader you must ask, “How can I use my new role to encourage others to be better at what they do?”

A good leader is passionate about the job, but a great leader is passionate about both the position and his / her staff. If you want to be the best manager you can be — get to know your staff! Don’t get so caught up with the role of leadership that you forget to be human — involve yourself!

The last thing a staff wants is a leader that doesn’t get down and dirty. You’ll find that the more you show them that you are willing to do the mundane tasks like; take out the garbage, write a report, whatever it is… your staff will respect you more.

Why?

Because you are not putting yourself above them and when you help them they, in turn, will help you back without question.

The only way you can empower your staff is to know them — you need to know what makes them tick. Knowing what motivates a person can help you encourage them, push them, and the outcome of that is personal empowerment. You want your staff to know that you don’t wish to be followed, but rather want them to believe in themselves and their skill so much that they don’t seek to follow.

Focus on their strengths and not their weakness. If William Wallace told his soldiers what they weren’t good at he wouldn’t have been such an inspiring leader. Instead, he took their strengths and encouraged them to be better and stronger at them — making them a better asset to him.

By complimenting your staff you are empowering them. Remember, what it felt like when your boss complimented you — give them that gift and it will go a long way.

Another great way to empower your staff is by running contests like “most transformed employee” and dangle a nice prize like dinner for two, tickets to a baseball game, etc.

Don’t be afraid to sit down with your staff one on one and talk to them, help them find strength in their weakness, help them be better in their strengths and ultimately you are encouraging them to be better at life. In addition, if they know you’ll take the time out for one on ones you’ll gain more respect, more work, and have less turn over.

You might be asking yourself, “Why should I?”

The answer is simple. If you take the time to empower your employees to be better and more successful you get rewarded three times.

1. By knowing you have helped another you become even more empowered and overall happy — which means home life will become better.

2. Your employees will be willing to do more for you including staying late. Instead of having to ask a particular person to stay late you will be able to say, “I need someone to stay late,” and watch the volunteers. It will amaze you! But in turn, you need to be flexible on your demands as well — don’t always be quick to scold or discipline.

3. By having a better staff flow, less turn over, and increased production your company will reward you.

So, what are you waiting for? Start empowering your staff!

So you want to be a Top Sales Person?

The key to being successful is by doing the things that successful people have done and by being willing to do the things they have not done.

You have chosen one of the most lucrative careers because your effort = your income; however, because your effort = your income this is often the hardest of careers.

Now, you and I both know, that doing more means more rejections and longer hours which attributes to higher stress levels — if you let it. Before a person climbs Mount Everest they know it won’t be easy and striving to be the best at anything is going to be a similar journey.

How do you become successful at sales?

1. Get passionate about the products and the company. If people see your passion it will become more believable and will become their passion too.

2. Become a better listener. The key to closing the sale is provided to you at the beginning — if you did a good interview and listened carefully they already told you how to make them purchase.

3. Have a good ice breaker — if you don’t break the ice you won’t get your customer to open up in order to do a good interview. Don’t use the same ice breaker — find some clue (a shirt, a hat, watch, etc.) that helps you identify with them and use it to open them up. For example, if a customer comes in wearing a Yankee’s shirt even if you don’t follow sports you can ask “How are the Yankee’s doing?” or “Have you gone to a Yankee’s game yet?”

Truth: People by default love talking about themselves and what interests them — if your icebreaker gets them do that you will be successful at breaking the ice.

4. Build Rapport. Have fun with your customer! The more they like you the more you become trusted and trust + like = sales. Note, I put the s on the end of sales and here is why… If someone trusts you enough to buy from you they often will send people your way and return back to you for future sales.

5. Ask for Referrals: Most salesmen are terrified with asking for referrals but if you did your job well your customer will indeed provided you with some. It can’t happen if you don’t ask and will happen more frequently if you do ask.

6. Don’t be pushy… re-close. A sale doesn’t happen because of two reasons either you haven’t build a rapport or you haven’t built value by repeating the key points that are disclosed to you during a proper interview.

7. NETWORK! If you are in the car business go to a build a referral network with detailers, car washes, tire salesman, etc. Go to car shows or any other place where you can network or find potential customers — have a pen and some business cards. Work out a deal for a referral program — if you make the sale you’ll kick them back x amount — don’t be shabby on their kickback. If you make it worth while you’ll get more referrals and reciprocate the referrals. Don’t just expect people to send people to you and you not return the favor.

8. Believe in yourself!

9. ENJOY THE PROCESS

If you enjoy what you are doing and are doing what you enjoy — it’s no longer work. Remember, at it’s core sales is a numbers game — the more you see, the more you do, the more closes you get. If you’re willing to commit to the work, make the effort, and think outside of the box you’ll become a great salesman.

However, both of the aforementioned statements are typically going to give you the response of, “It’s easier said than done,” but why is this?

Well, simply put it is because your old paradigm or conditioning is fighting hard against the implementation of a new paradigm. In addition, you probably haven’t changed your environment so you might run into resistance there; work, friends, family, society, the news, newspapers, etc.

You’ll probably end up saying things like, “I don’t believe in this,” or “It’s not realistic to think this way,” or maybe even, “It’s just wishful thinking but I have to get back to reality.”

These thoughts while are counterproductive to creating a new paradigm is completely normal – it’s a sign that your old paradigm is resisting the new programing.

Have you ever updated the software in your computer only to find it wasn’t compatible with some of the software currently installed? Well, it’s the same thing when you are talking about installing a new paradigm to update the old one.

The paradigm is the operating system installed on the subconscious mind. Everything you think, do, and are is because of the programming of the paradigm. So, how did the programming of the paradigm get there in the first place??

The conscious mind accepted thoughts, feelings, beliefs, etc. which came through a variety of sources; family, friends, TV, radio, the news, advertisements, teachers, society, etc.

Now, truth be told, the conscious mind accepts only what you allow it to – it has the ability to reject anything you do not wish to hold. Once accepted by you, it filters into the subconscious mind through repetition and becomes a fixed belief. This fixed belief is a part of the paradigm at this point.

In my PDF document, “The Re-Conditioning Program”, I outline a way in which one can create a New Paradigm in order to have a healthier, happier, balanced life. Part of this process is aligning your thoughts to match your desired outcome – if it doesn’t match your desired outcome, REJECT IT. Say next until you get to one that is in alignment with your end result.

When you came into this world, as a baby, you had a perfectly formatted hard drive with no partitions and no installed software – it was empty. From that point on, the installation of what would become your operating system began and hasn’t stopped.

Do you know that over 90% of what you do in a conscious state is actually controlled by the subconscious programming? That means, over 90% of what you do is on autopilot!

Another aspect of our conditioning is accepting labels placed upon us which later turn to beliefs, which sometimes we use as a crutch not to attempt anything beyond said label. For example, if someone is told that they are stupid over and over the conscious mind accepts it and it filters down to the subconscious as a belief. Now, this same person begins not to attempt things for fear of failure and the self talk aligns with this belief. Odds are this person will go through school “failing” because he/she has been conditioned to the label of being stupid. Yet, what is really happening is that it’s the willingness to accept the label has created the belief, which perpetuated within life.

Nobody is stupid. Every/body is a unit of energy filled with unlimited potential and the power of creation and we are swimming in a sea of infinite possibilities. When we accept a label like, “Stupid”, we are putting a limit – a cap – on this potential and the sea of infinite possibilities collapses around the accepted belief. Now, the accepted belief moves into the form of an excuse; “I cannot do it because I’m stupid,” or “I am handicapped,” or “I have ADD/ADHD”, or “I’m bi-polar”, etc.

Modern medicine’s answer is MEDICATE – but when we do that we aren’t really addressing the root or source of the problem, are we? No, we are merely “treating” – and I use that term loosely – a given label.

Did you know that a baby born into a welfare family is more than likely going to be a welfare recipient due to it’s programming? Considering that a majority of welfare recipients are third generation and beyond odds are pretty good that little baby will be to.

However, if you took that same baby and placed it in a wealthy home odds are pretty good it wouldn’t even be close to being on welfare. Why? Conditioning … the paradigm would be totally different.

There are people with no legs running races – not held back by a conditioned belief. Why because their conscious mind rejected the label and they said, “This will not stop me from becoming greatness!”

So, Shifting Paradigms, begins at the level of the conscious mind where it will either be accepted or rejected by you. Anything that happens beyond this point is your responsibility because you accepted or rejected an idea – not anyone else. Sure our conditioning has a lot to do with our outer environment and what we are exposed to but ultimately it’s up to us to ask, “Is this in alignment with the overall picture?” If not, and we accept it, whose fault is it?

YOURS!

But, instead, of beating yourself up over it – shift the belief and create one in alignment with the overall picture. Once it filters down to the subconscious it will become fixed and thus run on autopilot.

What’s this about autopilot?

When you get dressed in the morning do you have to think about what leg goes where? When you brush your teeth do you contemplate the toothbrush and wonder what to do with it? When you sit down to eat do you look at the knife, fork, and spoon and try and figure out how they operate? When you drive to work to you think about it?

No, these things have all been put on autopilot.

When you respond to an experience it is based on what you know, what you’ve learned, and what you have been conditioned to believe – autopilot. However, when you shift the condition or belief your response to situations will change.

What conditions or beliefs need to change to put you on the path to your overall picture? What does your new paradigm need to be in order to insure your end result?

What ever you hold in your mind is expressed and reflected back to you in the material world – if you don’t like what you see, tit’s alerting you that you have to change some of the conditionings.

ANYTHING IS POSSIBLE … you just have to raise your awareness to rise above previous conditioning, create a new paradigm in alignment with that which you wish to create, and watch the changes unfold before your eyes.